fear and the move

Moving is one of the top five stressors in our lives according to studies that have been done. Moving is not fun.

The first 11 years that Debbie and I were married, we moved 8 times.

And we have continued to move, although in the last 14 years we have moved one time.

I am sensing in our church family a tremendous amount of excitement over our move to 183rd street, but also some anxiety and fear.

Let me say first of all that the feelings of anxiousness and worry are natural - none of us likes to change the "way things are" especially when we leave behind a bunch of memories (sometimes good, sometimes bad).

However, we can't let our fear overwhelm us or push us into a state of panic, criticalness and worry.

During the Gulf War of 1991, Iraq launched a series of Scud missile attacks against Israel. Many Israeli citizens died as a result of these attacks.

After the war was over, Israeli scientists analyzed the official mortality statistics and found something remarkable.

Although the death rate had jumped among Israeli citizens on the first day of the Iraqi attacks, the vast majority of them did not die from any direct physical effects of the missiles.

They died from heart failure brought on by fear and stress associated with the bombardment.

Psychological studies conducted on Israelis at the time showed that the most stressful time was the first few days leading up to the outbreak of war on January 17th and peaking on the first day of the Scud missile attacks.

There was enormous and well-founded concern about possible Iraqi use of chemical and biological weapons. The government had issued to the entire Israeli population gas masks and automatic atropine syringes in case of chemical attack, and every household had been told to prepare a sealed room.

After the first Iraqi strike turned out to be less cataclysmic than feared, levels of stress declined markedly. As in other wars, the people adapted to the situation with surprising speed. Then as the fear and anxiety subsided, the death rate also declined. There were 17 further Iraqi missile attacks over the following weeks, but Israeli mortality figures over this period were no higher than average.

It was fear and the psychological impact of the missiles, not the physical impact, that claimed the majority of victims.

Let's not let our fear and worry overwhelm us. Sometimes the fear of something can be worse than the actual event.

Here's what I know. We are walking in God's will. God has everything under control. God is going to work everything out.

Let's continue to trust in Him.