Cynicism or joy

Either way - it is a choice.

Cynicism or joy.

Cynics seek the negative side of everything - wherever they go.

They always point to the possibility of danger, impure motives, and hidden agendas in the life of others. 

They can find a problem in every solution.

They sneer at enthusiasm, they ridicule those who are spiritually on fire for God, and they despise, I mean especially despise someone who exhibits charismatic behavior (in the sense of having an out-going personality).

Only here's the deal:  If you would ask them if they were a cynic, they would respond by saying, "no, I am not - I am a realist who sees reality for what it truly is - and I am not deceived by the "escapist emotions" of others (to use a phrase from Henri Nouwen).

Here's what I know:  negativism always breeds more negativism.

Contrast that with a person who consistently chooses to live in joy.

They don't deny the darkness, but they choose not to live in it.

Rather than whining, they worship.

Rather than speaking ill of others (or talking about others at all), they speak of the things of God.

As Henri Nouwen writes, "they claim that the light that shines in the darkness can be trusted more than the darkness itself and that a little bit of light can dispel a lot of darkness."

Rather than looking at the dark side of people (continually), they really believe that there are people who heal each other's wounds, forgive each other's offenses, share their possessions and enjoy the spirit of community. 

Here's what I also know:  positivism always breeds more positivism - and I love to hang around positive people.

Now then, here is the challenge.  Every moment of every day, you and I have the chance to choose between cynicism and joy.

Every thought I have can be cynical or joyful.

Every word I speak can be cynical or joyful.

Every action I take can be cynical or joyful.

What are you today?  A cynic?  Or a person full of God's joy?

It is your choice.

Just a thought for a Thursday.